Winks And Whistles

Living. Learning. Laughing.

Cousin Love And Turkish Coffee

Nadia and her boyfriend, Omar, had me and Chad over for dinner last night and oh boy did they serve a feast. Three courses of delicious food!

After dinner, they made us some Turkish coffee .. my first time trying it. It’s fair to say I’m a fan and will be purchasing some of my own in the near future.

I don’t see Nadia often enough. Isn’t that always how it is with family and friends? I just found out that her mom is moving to Boston full-time soon, which I’m very excited about. Aunt Trish is the best cook. And good company too, of course!

Let Today Be Joyful

I just heard some exciting news from a friend of mine and have decided that today should be a day dedicated to joy. Whether you’re spring cleaning, eating brunch with friends and family, or taking time to spoil yourself - be sure to enjoy it. My to-do list today includes a bit of an office cleanup, grocery shopping and a family dinner. I hope you can find some joy in this day too.

xoxoxo

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Flashback Friday: Moving To Boston - The First Time

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Right after the Boston Marathon bombings, there were numerous articles as to why Boston is such an incredible city. Many of them point to landmarks, the spirit of its people and how the United States got its start right here.

While I don’t disagree with any of these reasons, I’m sure that each and every one of us that lives and works and goes to school in Boston, have very personal reasons as to why we love this place. For me, Boston is where my own kinda, sorta coming-of-age story took place.

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The first time I moved here .. so many years ago .. was when I was 20, taking time off from college, and figuring out what it was I wanted out of my life. When I first arrived, I had no place to live. I stayed with a friend of a friend of a friend .. this French Canadian bohemian family living in East Boston who’s bathroom had one of those showers that also functioned as a toilet .. I was mortified.

I remember crying every day my first week here. I was alone, missed my family and friends, and was soon-to-be homeless because my invitation to live this with eclectic family only lasted a week. But through the generosity of someone I met through City Year - the Americorps program I had come to Boston to participate in - a complete stranger, and native Bostonian, who I had only known for 10 minutes, handed me her house keys telling me I had another place to stay indefinitely until I found my permanent home … which luckily happened soon after that.

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When I moved to Boston, I was so shy .. such an introvert. But there’s something about not knowing anyone that forces you to meet everyone you can just so you can survive. Living and working in this city helped shape me into the person I am today. Someone who can’t meet enough people and hear the stories they have to tell. Someone who loves to explore and learn as much about a place as she can.

Thank you, Boston, for helping make me who I am. It’s not that I wasn’t a totally awesome person at 20 (I mean, look at that face I’m making in the photo below), but I’m really proud of who I became during my first time living here.

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A Peak At Yesterday’s Birthday Festivities

Like I’ve said before, Chad just isn’t that into his birthday anymore. But he humors me by allowing me to make a presentation out of gifts and take him out to dinner. We ate at Sandrine’s Bistro in Harvard Square and OMG was the food amazingly delicious! Overall, it was a pretty great night. Love you, Chad.

Happy Birthday To My Husband

Happy Birthday to Chad! This is going to be our first year with birthdays as a married couple. Chad hasn’t really been into celebrating birthdays recently, but he surprisingly agreed to go out to dinner tonight with me. So, cheers to my husband .. who always knows how to make when laugh when I’m “grumpified.” Love you, sweetie!

Mmmmm .. Shorts Have Left My ‘Hate’ List

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So, for as long as I can remember .. well, ever since I hit puberty .. I’ve kind of hated shorts. Not a general all out hatred. I think plenty of people look cute in shorts. I’ve just never really liked them on me. I remember for one of my birthdays .. maybe I was 14 or 15, one of my friends gifted me a few pair of shorts because I never wore them and she thought it was about time I did. I dunno .. I mean, I still wore them now and then, but I just never really liked the way they looked on me. Call it what you will, but that’s just how it was.

One of the things I’ve never really loved about shorts .. and especially as an adult .. is how they usually fall in two categories. Bootaaaaay shorts - which .. ugh .. throw me into the Charles River. I don’t need my bum hanging out for the world to see. Or old lady (sorry old ladies!) down to my knee shorts. Why couldn’t I ever find a pair of shorts that didn’t make me feel like I was pretending to be someone else? 

I was in Anthropologie over the weekend and was on a mission to find shorts. I don’t know what came over me, but I decided it was time to get over my hatred of shorts on me and find a pair that I would actually wear. And you know what? I did. And it wasn’t like I had to talk myself into liking them when I was in the dressing room either. You know what I’m talking about. It just felt right.

So, maybe I’ve been looking in all the wrong places for shorts. Anyone have any recommendations for places they love to buy shorts?